Getting Over It (Relationship)

DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY

Getting over someone


You guys were madly in love with each other. You loved her, she loved you. But one fine day you guys broked up. The reason might be anything but the love of your life is no more the love of your life. The person who you thought of starting a family, having kids and making the best of anything is no longer in your life. Now what?



You want to move on but you are not able to. You get along with people, go on dates,start new relationships but the satisfaction which you got with her is just not there
You are in the 'We don't talk anymore' phase. Where you trying your best to move on but everything just fails.
You know what the reason is?

It's YOU! 



You are the reason you are not able to move on because you don't want to.So in order to get over someone you need to actually have the 'want' to get over it.


Step 1- Manipulate your brain

Stop telling yourself you love them.. Your brain listens to you and just you and if u tell him something it will obviously act accordingly.Words have power. So in order to stop loving them. You actually have to stop loving them. Because your brain manifests what you tell him.You train your brain that no matter what that person does, you are gonna love them. Because it's your person.Stoppppppp.........Lie to your brain. Tell it you don't love that person. I know it sounds stupid but once you train your mind that you don't love that person. It will start believing you and at one point actually unlove them. Because at the end of the day it's an organ and it will act what you manifest inside it.

Step 2-Detach the attachment

It's all in your brain. Moving on is lot more easier if you allow yourself to. Let's jump back to the time when u actually started attaching yourself with this person. What was the reason, what was the situation and reflect on that.There are reasons why you get attached to that person. It might be because they motivated you to do something, inspired you,helped you,made you a better person.Whatever be the reason your brain bonded with them. The purpose of that person is accomplished in your life. So let them leave.


Step 3-Start looking at the person clearly

When you love someone you don't see the real them. There is this bubble you build for yourself where the person you love is the most perfect one. And no matter what they are always right. No! Stop doing that. In order to move on you have to understand and burst the bubble. Is that person doing anything good or is the existence of that person giving you peace?


Step 4- Stop thinking about that person

The most important part is to stop thinking about that person. The curiosity when we break up in an early stage of a relationship where things are half discovered is crucial. We tend to keep on thinking that it might worked out if we behaved like that or this. When we don't know how the person actually was, what would things had been if we had got some time.Nothing worked dude! That's the reason the relationship is gone. So stop fantasizing and remembering the same old crap and just divert yourself from that topic altogether.


You might love a person to depth but if the only thing you and the other person get is hurt then this relationship was not meant to be. So instead of being in pain,try and get out of it. I know it is difficult but you can!It's all in the mind.



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