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Why getting back to an ex is a bad idea?

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY. Why getting back to an EX is a bad idea Past,Present or Future. What to choose? Doesn't this question pops up in everyone's mind frequently? Living in the present,thinking about the future or remembering our past? Don't we keep dwelling everyday? Specially when it is about our past. We recall each and every memory of our's. Specially the one which is left half way. The incomplete one's. Something identical to our relationships as well. The thought of someone we used to love often crosses our mind. The regular 'What if's' are a reason most of us have this some sort of regrets revolving our thoughts. What if we were together? What if i had said sorry? What if things might had turned out differently? What if we kept our ego's aside? What if this? What if that? What if,What if,What if?...

Getting Over It (Relationship)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY Getting over someone You guys were madly in love with each other. You loved her, she loved you. But one fine day you guys broked up. The reason might be anything but the love of your life is no more the love of your life. The person who you thought of starting a family, having kids and making the best of anything is no longer in your life. Now what? You want to move on but you are not able to. You get along with people, go on dates,start new relationships but the satisfaction which you got with her is just not there You are in the 'We don't talk anymore' phase. Where you trying your best to move on but everything just fails. You know what the reason is? It's YOU!  You are the reason you are not able to move on because you don't want to. So in order to get over someone you need to a...

Why You Shouldn't Be Desperate For Love (#1 SOCIAL MEDIA)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY Why You Shouldn't Be Desperate For Love (#1 SOCIAL MEDIA) Most of your relationships don't last. The guy you like doesn't like you back. All of your past relationships have guys cheating on you, betraying you blah blah blah.....Is this how your situation looks like? Then probably it's because you are desperate. This might sound rude but it's what it is. You are just too desperate. And it shows in your attitude, the way you treat them and the fact that you crave them. Today i'm gonna talk about projecting desperation through social media- So let's dive in...... Desperation is the main reason why a guy/girl just no longer is interested in you. Just keep yourself in their place and imagine someone acting desperate for you. Obviously you get turned off. Right? That...

How To Make A Relationship Work? (CIAT Theory)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY How To Make A Relationship Work? (CIAT) Earlier Relationships were simple. People knew who they love, what they want and were exclusive. No confusion. But today the situation is pretty ugly. People just don't know what they want. Modern Relationships are so complex, people actually don't know what exactly their relationship status is? We all are so confused whether this is a relationship or is it just a casual makeout. People just don't know what it is. A relationship is supposed to be a bond between two people connected emotionally and physically together. But today it is much more than that. Today it is very easy to break a relation but to sustain it is difficult. To keep this relation intact you need to work really hard and for that you need the willingness to actually do it. Act...

An Unrequited Love Ft. Naina Talwaar (YJHD)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY An Unrequited Love Ft. Naina Talwaar (YJHD) "Nahi bol pae, bas nahi bol pae. Mujhe usse jitna pyaar tha usse kahi jyaada usse apne khwaboo se tha." This scene was heart wrenching for me as well a realization moment. Naina( Deepika Padukone ) taught me it's not necessary that the person you love will always love you back. And that  when you don't get the love back, it's not the end of the world. Naina is a character which has inspired me in so many ways and i am sure even u have learnt something or the other from her. From being a book-worm to a confident young women her journey had one thing in common from start to end- ie. she did what she wanted and what her heart thought was correct. Unrequited love is when the love you offer is not given back to you. But in this case, we...

The On-Off Relationships Ft. Ross & Rachel

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY The On-Off Relationship Ft. Ross & Rachel You guys love each other, but it is one of those toxic relationships where you want each other but end up breaking up everytime. You have given this relationship so many chances and gone through so much of pain that it has just become a regular thing for you guys. It keeps on going on and off. Either it is your fault or his and the other times it is just the whole situation that leads to dis-agreement. You just can't help but part ways but eventually again get back together. If this is how your situation looks like? Then you are the ROSS & RACHEL of F.R.I.E.N.D.S 5 SIGNS YOU ARE ROSS AND RACHEL OF F.R.I.E.N.D.S 1. You keep digging each other's past- Being in a relationship is being true to your partner and accepting their past and living in the...

Why Does He Get Jealous If He Doesn't Love You?

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY Why Does He Get Jealous If He Doesn't Love  You? We are together,but not forever. He wants me but not  completely.  He likes me but doesn't love me. Still he gets jealous whenever i talk to someone. Is this what your situation looks like?  Then girl, this blog is for you. You start thinking that he loves you because he is jealous. Because jealousy is a sign of love. Is it? Does being jealous means that person loves you? Maybe, Maybe not! Jealousy doesn't really mean it is love. Sometimes it does, but not everytime.  (Contains personified reference of human and a jacket, doesn't intend to hurt anybody or dehumanize in any form) Let me explain. You have a shimmery jacket which you use not that frequently. You wear it just when you feel like, but you won...

NOT SO LASTING LOVE.

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY STR- SHORT TERM RELATIONSHIPS We have all heard that love is said to be divine only when it lasts long. A love story is successful only when it lasts for a long period or till infinity. But there are times when some relations don't last long. Today, I'm gonna talk about why,why,whyyyyyyy do relationships don't last? Have people stopped loving? Or are they just not aware why a partner is important to live.. Let's get started... From keeping relationships about two people who love each other to doing everything just for the sake of social media thats how the evolution of long lasting healthy relationships to trashy STR happened. I'm not saying that STR are bad but a person needs a good healthy long lasting relation to sustain. A person who cares for him/her, a person who is approachable w...