TRUE LOVE??




DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY.



TRUE LOVE,WAIT WHAT???

 Let me start this blog by asking you.Have you experienced love in your life? If yes, then what is love/true love?
Most of you might not have an answer, Right.
That is because most of us have not fallen in love, Yes its true.
Most of us fall apart before even falling in love with each other.



Now lets go in detail

 Basically, the process involve 3 steps.
We go through 3 main systems before entering into this whole stigma called 'love'.                             source pic- credit

 Express your love to your loved one's by gifting them this stylish bracelet, i am sure she will love it...
First let me burst some your myths.

  • We believe that love can happen on first sight, JI NAAH?
The first sight thing we experience is not love.
A handsome guy/beautiful girl passing by and you have this whole Raj Kapoor and Nargis sequence in your mind where both of you are singing "Pyaar hua iqraar hua hai" and dancing in rain...Yaa that thing is not love.
The term for it is Lust/Attraction.
The first few days of your relation come under attraction phase as well.

So, now that you know chill and relax as we move further to the next phase.
  • "I cant live without you" or "He is the reason i'm alive" are stupid quotes.
You were a girl/guy who used to be very confident doing well with life, always happy, living your life king size. Then come a guy/girl who u get charmed with or say not interested initially.But some how u guys gel in and get into a relationship.
Then you notice you miss them everytime,everywhere.You start feeling you cant live without them. You are in the next phase called infactuation.
Basically,tumhe unke aadat hoo jaate hai.
And as Shraddha Kapoor has said in OK JAANU  "Doon log jab pyaar main hote hain toh aadat pad jaate hain ekdusre ke aur waqt aane par naa aadat chutte hai naa pyaar".
Ab tak pyaar nahi hua hai .
Intezaar karo!!!!
Qki intezaar ka faal meetha hota hai.



  • Aur Pyaar hoo gaya......
One day, you and your partner were hanging out then he/she gets a call from office and is informed that they are promoted.
What you feel is the answer of your question.
If you feel jeolous, like pura din toh mere saath ghumte rehte hai aise kaise? She does nothing,still.
Or
Wow baby, Congratulations.
In your mind "Im so proud of him/her".

When you love someone, jeolousy never enters the picture.
If you love someone, their happiness means everything for you.
The satisfaction you get after looking at them is 'LOVE'.
Basically, unko khush dkhkar agar aapko khushi mile aur aap tript hoo jao toh wo pyaar hai.....

Other than that when you both contradict in personalities and have perspectives which are poles apart.
But still you respect each others decision.

OMGGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!

You are in love,darling.
source- pic credit

So, if you stand firm in the initial steps together.
Delhi door nahiiiiii.
Now go to him/her and express your love with this awesome track which is my fav- saathiya tune
So understand where your relationship stand and make sure u complete the stages together by hitting the bull's eye.


 Here, we have covered only a part of this stigma called love.
To understand it more in depth we have a book called 'True Love : A Practice For Awakening The Heart ' by Thich Nhat Hanh. Its life changing and im sure you will like it.

Watch this space for more...

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