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Why You Shouldn't Be Desperate For Love (#1 SOCIAL MEDIA)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY Why You Shouldn't Be Desperate For Love (#1 SOCIAL MEDIA) Most of your relationships don't last. The guy you like doesn't like you back. All of your past relationships have guys cheating on you, betraying you blah blah blah.....Is this how your situation looks like? Then probably it's because you are desperate. This might sound rude but it's what it is. You are just too desperate. And it shows in your attitude, the way you treat them and the fact that you crave them. Today i'm gonna talk about projecting desperation through social media- So let's dive in...... Desperation is the main reason why a guy/girl just no longer is interested in you. Just keep yourself in their place and imagine someone acting desperate for you. Obviously you get turned off. Right? That...

How To Make A Relationship Work? (CIAT Theory)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY How To Make A Relationship Work? (CIAT) Earlier Relationships were simple. People knew who they love, what they want and were exclusive. No confusion. But today the situation is pretty ugly. People just don't know what they want. Modern Relationships are so complex, people actually don't know what exactly their relationship status is? We all are so confused whether this is a relationship or is it just a casual makeout. People just don't know what it is. A relationship is supposed to be a bond between two people connected emotionally and physically together. But today it is much more than that. Today it is very easy to break a relation but to sustain it is difficult. To keep this relation intact you need to work really hard and for that you need the willingness to actually do it. Act...

Why Do You Always Attract The Same Type Of Guys?

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY Why Do You Always Attract The Same Type Of Guys?  You've just got out of a toxic relationship, moved on with life, living a regular life having no contact with your ex. You have met this new guy, things have started to workout between you guys. And you and he are in a relationship. You guys were all in love trying to get to know each other, but one fine day you get this deja-vu. You just pause for a moment and you are like, wait,wait,wait a minute! Isn't this what my ex used to do? You realise that you are dating that same person again but with a different face. His actions, his behaviour, his defence towards things, his ego , his way of re-acting everything is so similiar to that of my ex.        That's when you realise that you are attracted to the same pattern of behaviour. The law of a...

Why Does He Get Jealous If He Doesn't Love You?

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY Why Does He Get Jealous If He Doesn't Love  You? We are together,but not forever. He wants me but not  completely.  He likes me but doesn't love me. Still he gets jealous whenever i talk to someone. Is this what your situation looks like?  Then girl, this blog is for you. You start thinking that he loves you because he is jealous. Because jealousy is a sign of love. Is it? Does being jealous means that person loves you? Maybe, Maybe not! Jealousy doesn't really mean it is love. Sometimes it does, but not everytime.  (Contains personified reference of human and a jacket, doesn't intend to hurt anybody or dehumanize in any form) Let me explain. You have a shimmery jacket which you use not that frequently. You wear it just when you feel like, but you won...

WHY DO YOU ALWAYS HURT ME??? #1

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY. WHY DO YOU ALWAYS HURT ME??(TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS) Nothing hurts more than knowing that someone means the world to you but you don't even matter to them. In this post im gonna cover the toxic relations, the other kind of relationships will be covered in upcoming posts... Keep reading Intentionally you don't hurt the person you love, but in reality you always hurt the person you love bcuz you can't hurt the person you don't love... Ok!!! This might be confusing.. But have you'll noticed that intentionally or unintentionally you come across certain circumstances where you hurt the person you love the most. Even i have been through such things in my life, where i have hurted the person who means the world to me. But you can't help it.. Because not everyone thinks the same way you do, s...

SELF LOVE #1 (Guest Blogger :Aashish Dubey)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY. SELF LOVE #1- FIRST INSTALLMENT LET'S GET INTO A SCENARIO- You are frustrated with your life, just thinking and tryna understand the shit happening in your life. Having questions like why am i such a mess? Why can't life be normal? Why is there so much negativity around me? Ohhhhhh, wait! Thats because i don't fucking love myself!!! Do you get this question in your mind? And if you get this, dont worry its all normal.. Until i decide one day to make it complicate.... Hey, this is Trupti Mulik...Your Relationship and Life Coach here to help you understand the complexity of love and life and to sort it out for you.. Today's blog is co-written by one of my friend and me as the complexity of self love are more fragile and could be better written by people who actually follow self love as a Lifestyl...

ARE YOU JUST FOR EXPERIMENT???

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY. ARE YOU HIS/HER EXPERIMENTAL GF/BF?? LET'S START THIS BLOG BY A SCENARIO- You and your guy were going good, you turned him from a bratt to a gentlemen. A guy who had nothing to do in his life, is now a guy with goals and you have even helped him achieve those goals. But after a few months, he tells you that it's not working and breaks up with you. Later you find out that he has started dating this chick and behaves very well with her. But when you guys were together, he never gave you so much importance and never did he made you feel special. That bitch has a perfect boyfriend and  a perfect relationship without doing anything.... What did you had? A dumb partner, who you had put your heart and soul to make him what he is today... Why? Why God?? What have i done?  These are the questions which come i...