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How To Make A Relationship Work? (CIAT Theory)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY How To Make A Relationship Work? (CIAT) Earlier Relationships were simple. People knew who they love, what they want and were exclusive. No confusion. But today the situation is pretty ugly. People just don't know what they want. Modern Relationships are so complex, people actually don't know what exactly their relationship status is? We all are so confused whether this is a relationship or is it just a casual makeout. People just don't know what it is. A relationship is supposed to be a bond between two people connected emotionally and physically together. But today it is much more than that. Today it is very easy to break a relation but to sustain it is difficult. To keep this relation intact you need to work really hard and for that you need the willingness to actually do it. Act...

An Unrequited Love Ft. Naina Talwaar (YJHD)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY An Unrequited Love Ft. Naina Talwaar (YJHD) "Nahi bol pae, bas nahi bol pae. Mujhe usse jitna pyaar tha usse kahi jyaada usse apne khwaboo se tha." This scene was heart wrenching for me as well a realization moment. Naina( Deepika Padukone ) taught me it's not necessary that the person you love will always love you back. And that  when you don't get the love back, it's not the end of the world. Naina is a character which has inspired me in so many ways and i am sure even u have learnt something or the other from her. From being a book-worm to a confident young women her journey had one thing in common from start to end- ie. she did what she wanted and what her heart thought was correct. Unrequited love is when the love you offer is not given back to you. But in this case, we...

The On-Off Relationships Ft. Ross & Rachel

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY The On-Off Relationship Ft. Ross & Rachel You guys love each other, but it is one of those toxic relationships where you want each other but end up breaking up everytime. You have given this relationship so many chances and gone through so much of pain that it has just become a regular thing for you guys. It keeps on going on and off. Either it is your fault or his and the other times it is just the whole situation that leads to dis-agreement. You just can't help but part ways but eventually again get back together. If this is how your situation looks like? Then you are the ROSS & RACHEL of F.R.I.E.N.D.S 5 SIGNS YOU ARE ROSS AND RACHEL OF F.R.I.E.N.D.S 1. You keep digging each other's past- Being in a relationship is being true to your partner and accepting their past and living in the...

How To UNLOVE Somebody?

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY How To UNLOVE Somebody? You are in love with somebody, you thought that this is going to be forever. But one day this person comes to you and tell you that "Things are not working. I am sorry". That sorry, i just can't explain how hurtful that sorry is! This moment is the most difficult moment of your life, because you din't had a back up plan about what you will do once this person is gone. You thought that this thing is permanent but now he is gone. Leaving a heartbroken you with no clue what to do. This is the point every friend of yours start suggesting you that you need to move on but they don't tell you how? So if you want to know please keep reading. So before starting let me clear you can't completely unlove somebody, but with due course of time you will even...

Why Do You Always Attract The Same Type Of Guys?

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY Why Do You Always Attract The Same Type Of Guys?  You've just got out of a toxic relationship, moved on with life, living a regular life having no contact with your ex. You have met this new guy, things have started to workout between you guys. And you and he are in a relationship. You guys were all in love trying to get to know each other, but one fine day you get this deja-vu. You just pause for a moment and you are like, wait,wait,wait a minute! Isn't this what my ex used to do? You realise that you are dating that same person again but with a different face. His actions, his behaviour, his defence towards things, his ego , his way of re-acting everything is so similiar to that of my ex.        That's when you realise that you are attracted to the same pattern of behaviour. The law of a...

Why Does He Get Jealous If He Doesn't Love You?

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY Why Does He Get Jealous If He Doesn't Love  You? We are together,but not forever. He wants me but not  completely.  He likes me but doesn't love me. Still he gets jealous whenever i talk to someone. Is this what your situation looks like?  Then girl, this blog is for you. You start thinking that he loves you because he is jealous. Because jealousy is a sign of love. Is it? Does being jealous means that person loves you? Maybe, Maybe not! Jealousy doesn't really mean it is love. Sometimes it does, but not everytime.  (Contains personified reference of human and a jacket, doesn't intend to hurt anybody or dehumanize in any form) Let me explain. You have a shimmery jacket which you use not that frequently. You wear it just when you feel like, but you won...

The Ugly Truth About Ghosting!!!

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY The Ugly Truth About Ghosting Ghosting?What is it? How can you make up things,like i have never heard about it. Honey,ghosting does exist.And it happens approximately with everyone. And,And,And...If it hasn't happened with you, be ready.Cuz the devil is on his way!! So Ghosting basically is disappearing.  Remember this guy/girl you used to talk to,went out on dates maybe 2 or 3 times and as soon as you thought that this thing is possibly meant to be forever...You are all ready to take this to the other level and get things official, and suddenly this son of a *** disappears. Like he is nowhere. . Congratulations you've been GHOSTED!!! Ghosting is when a guy/girl whom you are seeing for that particular time frame suddenly disappears. They don't text you,don't call and not even ca...