How To Make A Relationship Work? (CIAT Theory)

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How To Make A Relationship Work? (CIAT)

Earlier Relationships were simple. People knew who they love, what they want and were exclusive. No confusion. But today the situation is pretty ugly. People just don't know what they want.

Modern Relationships are so complex, people actually don't know what exactly their relationship status is? We all are so confused whether this is a relationship or is it just a casual makeout. People just don't know what it is.

A relationship is supposed to be a bond between two people connected emotionally and physically together. But today it is much more than that.

Today it is very easy to break a relation but to sustain it is difficult. To keep this relation intact you need to work really hard and for that you need the willingness to actually do it. Action speak louder than words. EFFORTS are of utmost importance to keep things in place and make it last long or forever.

In order to give you a deep understanding, i curated some factors which could make a huge difference in your relationship and help you make it work. Which is the CIAT theory.

So to make it easy for you guys, here is the C.I.A.T theory-

CIATS stands for-

C - Communication

I - Intimacy

A - Appreciation

T - Time

1- Communication- The most important factor is communication. A good communication is required to eliminate mis-understanding. Communication is of utmost importance. You must know what the other person wants and the other person must know what you want. Talk, just talk. Be a good listener as well express yourself. Be vocal about yourself, your feelings. Just speak it out.

2- Intimacy- Intimacy is mis-understood as only sex. It is more than just a vagina and a penis. Intimacy is a simple hug, a peck or even just eye-contact. Intimacy in a relationship fills alot of voids between you and the other person. It is a way to express your feelings without even saying a word. The most simple thing you could do is a hug and a simple kiss on the forehead. This gesture of yours would make them believe you adore them and want them.

3- Appreciation- This is what is very important for me personally. Appreciating your partner for their work, for their efforts is what makes them happy. Appreciate little things and see how much difference it makes. Small appreciations such as " You look Beautiful today" or "That work u did was brilliant". Anything you think could motivate them or they could feel encouraged by just do it.

4- Time- Spending Quality time with each other is important. Give each other some time each day. Remove some time from your day,no matter how busy you are one needs to make time for people they love. Don't neglect these moments as that is the only time you have to express. Giving time is what helps in understanding what this relationship requires as a whole. 

PRO TIP- Avoid using phone or watching TV when you are with each other. This makes them believe they are more important than anything else.

 These are the 4 factors you have to use proportionately to have a long sustainable relationship. Relationship are very delicate and in order to make them work one needs to put EFFORT and work your ass off. 

"If you want it work for it" Remember this.

 

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1- Communication
2- Appreciation
3- Intimacy
4- Time
5- Support