13 REASONS WHY IT DINT WORK!!!!!

DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY.

AS I FOUNDED THE BLOG WAS GETTING LENGTHY I DECIDED TO MAKE IT IN 2 PARTS SO AS THIS POST REACHES 50 VIEWS I'LL UPLOAD THE  NEXT ONE. ENJOY!!!!!


6 REASONS WHY YOUR RELATION FAILED...


Are you upset?That a fairytale you imagined turned into a nightmare?
The prince of your dream was actually a frog!!!
OHHHHHHH NOOOOOO!!!!!!
Love is not a stable stigma.It constantly changes forms and behavior.Sometimes its all lovey-dovey while otherwise you are constantly fighting. The graph keeps on deviating.
Our feelings are never constant.
There are times when your behavior could led to this deviations. Its us, when our relation is facing complications.
It depends on us, whether to save it or lose it forever.

But many a times, we don't know what are the causes of these fall backs.
So here i am to guide you through this process...
Here are some reason's which you can avoid to maintain a healthy relation with your partner.

Relation is a glue that binds two people together, so as to face challenges that life throws at them together and be there for each other.
When the glue starts eroding, this bond is disturbed and it leads to differentiation of paths.
But to keep this glue intact some precaution should be taken,the eroding factors are mentioned below.
Here i am mentioning 13 reasons as to why you are not able to keep it all intact and as a result ruin your relationship.


13 Reasons Why your relationship failed...

• Not giving space to your partner:

When it comes to a relationship, we expect our partner to be with us everytime. They must tell us everything and should be available to us whenever needed.

But is this possible??

NOOOOO!!!!!!

Don't be Imran khan from the movie 'Break ke Baad' who was completely involved in his love interest Deepika Padukone's life and career choices.

Give them their required space and allow them to breath..

• Doubting your partner:

Trust issues can be seen in almost every relation nowadays.

Getting jealous when someone gets close to your partner proves your love towards them. But anything in excess is harmful.

Little jealousy is cute but try and control your doubts as it may result to your partner getting distant from you.

Remember Radhe from the movie 'Tere Naam',yaa that Salman khan movie, Don't be that guy....plsssssssss

• Being Dominant:

You are no Adolf Hitler and she/he is not your slaves.

Domination should never exist in a relation.

Two people who are half, find another half and make it full.

Its never 30/70, always 50/50.

Equality in a relationship is required as much it is required in our society.

• Ignoring:

If you love someone, stop ignoring them.

If you have some work and couldn't reciprocate back just leave a text or afterward call.

But when you ignore them, they get a sense of feeling that they are not important to you.

This one's a big turn off for anyone.Learning that you dont matter to somebody kills!!!

• Not involving them in decission making:

Lets get into a scenario.

Imagine you and your partner sitting and having some coffee, suddenly she/he tells you that they are planning to get a house of their own. You tryna suggest them things but they interupt you and ask you to not interfere....

How will you feel?

Exactly!!!

To avoid such feelings one should make joint decisions, so they feel that their opinion matter to you.

In short,they matter to you.
One example, of how you can support each other even after betrayal and still keep that relation intact is 'Will You Still Love Me' by Ravinder Singh.

This awesome book 'Will You Still Love Me'  by writer Ravinder Singh explains the subtle art of love. Here both the protagonists supported each other and figured things out calmly.

• Less communication, More complications

Talk to him/her.

Anything and Anywhere just fucking talk.

Keep that spark alive by communicating.

If you like something or not like, just keep on talking.

Sometimes due to lack of communication we experience mis-understanding. And this then leads to distance between you and your partner.

See its that simple!!!!

As now you know where you are lacking work on it,babe.

I'm sure u will succeed with flying colours...

I will be back with the remaining reasons as soon as this post reach 50 views till then siyaaaaaa!!!!

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