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Why getting back to an ex is a bad idea?

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY. Why getting back to an EX is a bad idea Past,Present or Future. What to choose? Doesn't this question pops up in everyone's mind frequently? Living in the present,thinking about the future or remembering our past? Don't we keep dwelling everyday? Specially when it is about our past. We recall each and every memory of our's. Specially the one which is left half way. The incomplete one's. Something identical to our relationships as well. The thought of someone we used to love often crosses our mind. The regular 'What if's' are a reason most of us have this some sort of regrets revolving our thoughts. What if we were together? What if i had said sorry? What if things might had turned out differently? What if we kept our ego's aside? What if this? What if that? What if,What if,What if?...

How To Make A Relationship Work? (CIAT Theory)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY How To Make A Relationship Work? (CIAT) Earlier Relationships were simple. People knew who they love, what they want and were exclusive. No confusion. But today the situation is pretty ugly. People just don't know what they want. Modern Relationships are so complex, people actually don't know what exactly their relationship status is? We all are so confused whether this is a relationship or is it just a casual makeout. People just don't know what it is. A relationship is supposed to be a bond between two people connected emotionally and physically together. But today it is much more than that. Today it is very easy to break a relation but to sustain it is difficult. To keep this relation intact you need to work really hard and for that you need the willingness to actually do it. Act...

An Unrequited Love Ft. Naina Talwaar (YJHD)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY An Unrequited Love Ft. Naina Talwaar (YJHD) "Nahi bol pae, bas nahi bol pae. Mujhe usse jitna pyaar tha usse kahi jyaada usse apne khwaboo se tha." This scene was heart wrenching for me as well a realization moment. Naina( Deepika Padukone ) taught me it's not necessary that the person you love will always love you back. And that  when you don't get the love back, it's not the end of the world. Naina is a character which has inspired me in so many ways and i am sure even u have learnt something or the other from her. From being a book-worm to a confident young women her journey had one thing in common from start to end- ie. she did what she wanted and what her heart thought was correct. Unrequited love is when the love you offer is not given back to you. But in this case, we...

How To UNLOVE Somebody?

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY How To UNLOVE Somebody? You are in love with somebody, you thought that this is going to be forever. But one day this person comes to you and tell you that "Things are not working. I am sorry". That sorry, i just can't explain how hurtful that sorry is! This moment is the most difficult moment of your life, because you din't had a back up plan about what you will do once this person is gone. You thought that this thing is permanent but now he is gone. Leaving a heartbroken you with no clue what to do. This is the point every friend of yours start suggesting you that you need to move on but they don't tell you how? So if you want to know please keep reading. So before starting let me clear you can't completely unlove somebody, but with due course of time you will even...

Why Do You Always Attract The Same Type Of Guys?

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY Why Do You Always Attract The Same Type Of Guys?  You've just got out of a toxic relationship, moved on with life, living a regular life having no contact with your ex. You have met this new guy, things have started to workout between you guys. And you and he are in a relationship. You guys were all in love trying to get to know each other, but one fine day you get this deja-vu. You just pause for a moment and you are like, wait,wait,wait a minute! Isn't this what my ex used to do? You realise that you are dating that same person again but with a different face. His actions, his behaviour, his defence towards things, his ego , his way of re-acting everything is so similiar to that of my ex.        That's when you realise that you are attracted to the same pattern of behaviour. The law of a...

NOT SO LASTING LOVE.

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY STR- SHORT TERM RELATIONSHIPS We have all heard that love is said to be divine only when it lasts long. A love story is successful only when it lasts for a long period or till infinity. But there are times when some relations don't last long. Today, I'm gonna talk about why,why,whyyyyyyy do relationships don't last? Have people stopped loving? Or are they just not aware why a partner is important to live.. Let's get started... From keeping relationships about two people who love each other to doing everything just for the sake of social media thats how the evolution of long lasting healthy relationships to trashy STR happened. I'm not saying that STR are bad but a person needs a good healthy long lasting relation to sustain. A person who cares for him/her, a person who is approachable w...

POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIP (TABOO)

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY. WHY IS POLYAMOROUS RELATIONSHIP A TABOO???                                                source- click here. Polyamory or Polyamorous relationship- Have you heard this word, 'mon amour' ?? I assume you have.. Anyways this word means 'my love'. And amour is 'love'. So the term 'polyamorous actually means 'Many Loves'. Sounds strange right. It's basically a practice of having a relationship or to be more precise an intimate relationship with more than one partner with the consent of everyone involved. After reading this we Indians will blame the western people for such culture.. But hello people it's time for a wake up call!! The origin of 'Polyamoro...

WHAT IS COHABITATION??

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DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY. COHABITATION  (LIVE-IN RELATIONSHIP) First of all i am sorry i have been absent for a week and haven't posted.. When i realised i was like.. Topic shift ALERT!!! Sorry, sorry.... OK, So after reading my title..You guys may be thinking what the f#$#$ is this? So guys the term you have been using was 'Live-in' but thats not the exact one. It's actually 'COHABITATION'. So i asked couple of my friends what do they think live-in is? Everyone answered me in a similar pattern. Their answer was when two people live together without marriage.. It is partially correct. But even tenants live together in the same place by equally contributing. So this is just half of the answer. Let me explain. Technically, when two people live together and have a sexual r...