SELF LOVE #1 (Guest Blogger :Aashish Dubey)

DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY.

SELF LOVE #1- FIRST INSTALLMENT


LET'S GET INTO A SCENARIO-

You are frustrated with your life, just thinking and tryna understand the shit happening in your life.
Having questions like why am i such a mess? Why can't life be normal? Why is there so much negativity around me?
Ohhhhhh, wait!
Thats because i don't fucking love myself!!!
Do you get this question in your mind?
And if you get this, dont worry its all normal..
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Until i decide one day to make it complicate....

Hey, this is Trupti Mulik...Your Relationship and Life Coach here to help you understand the complexity of love and life and to sort it out for you..
Today's blog is co-written by one of my friend and me as the complexity of self love are more fragile and could be better written by people who actually follow self love as a Lifestyle.
So I thank Aashish Dubey to help me write this sketch for you guys.Keep reading.
 Have you guys heard this super quote, that says 'In order to make someone love you, you need to love yourself first'.
Anybody?
So according to this quote, Nobody will love you if you don't love yourself.
That's not correct.
Bcuz if that's true, then our ancestors, say my grandpaa and grandmaa would have never fallen for each other.
See let's get facts clear, at that time there was no such concept of self love.
It has all started now.
At that time people had no idea of what loving one self was?
The only  thing they knew was getting up, taking that lunch box, leaving for work and then again returning at night just to fall asleep.
Even now the scenario is the same but now we understand what life really is.
So we put more time in such things, thats what you are doing here....

People have stopped getting social because of this anxiety that they don't love themself...
So they think that if they don't love themself how will other's love them?
See no matter what there are few people who love you unconditionally.
And it doesn't require that you need to love yourself in order for them to love you..
But if you love yourself, it makes your life easy...
So don't love yourself just because you want other's to love you.
Love yourself just because you love it..
Love yourself because you are freaking awesome..
Learn how to balance it.
It's like a boat...
The balance should be maintained on both sides of it...
People will love you no matter what but to keep your boat floating you need to start loving youself just for thyself.
Not for anybody else..
Repeat with me,

LOVE THYSELF BECAUSE YOU LOVE IT, NOT FOR ANY BODY ELSE..

Repeat till it get's registered inside...
So, dont fall in this trap of making people love you by loving yourself.
Instead work on your relationship with yourself, make that thing work.
Just take a deep breath and love yourself..
Love yourself and side by side nurture your relationship with other's..
Nurture, form and develop relationships we have with our people, who are actually our people and not the one we tryna get in our life.
Bcuz they are not our people.
Listen to this awezsome song 'love you zindigi' of Alia Bhatt and Shahrukh Khan..You will definitely understand what i'm tryna say..
Ps- i cant link it as i face copyright issues please search it on youtube..
SIYAAAAA!!!!!
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