WHY DO YOU ALWAYS HURT ME??? #1


DISCLAIMER- THIS POST REFLECTS MY PERSONAL THOUGHTS AND IS IN REFFRENCE TO MY IDEA TOWARDS RELATION.SOME MAY RELATE OTHERS MAY NOT. ENJOY.AND SPREAD POSITIVITY.



WHY DO YOU ALWAYS HURT ME??(TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS)
Nothing hurts more than knowing that someone means the world to you but you don't even matter to them.

In this post im gonna cover the toxic relations, the other kind of relationships will be covered in upcoming posts...
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Intentionally you don't hurt the person you love, but in reality you always hurt the person you love bcuz you can't hurt the person you don't love...
Ok!!!

 This might be confusing..
But have you'll noticed that intentionally or unintentionally you come across certain circumstances where you hurt the person you love the most.

 Even i have been through such things in my life, where i have hurted the person who means the world to me.
But you can't help it..
Because not everyone thinks the same way you do, so perspective differs which leads to unfulfilled desires/ expectations.
THIS FUCKING HURTS!!!


This relation causes you so much trouble but still you keep going back to get more hurt....

 Like girl why???

 See you can't really stop them hurting you and u can't suddenly stop loving them..
Don't do that Love them..
Don't force yourself to stop loving them..
The one thing you can do is start seeing that person clearly..
Look at their cons.. look at what they lack..
Look for the reason they hurt you..

 # MY STORY

 See my guy hurted me because he actually din't wanted to be with me..
He made sure that i get hurt by every action of his...
This is not because he hated me, but also din't really loved me...


He used to hurt me with small things..
By hurting me this way, he maintained this space between us where i'm not really into this but not fully out..
I'll explain..
He wanted a relationship, where i'm not in his top priority list..
Like i was just there for the sake of being there..
He hurted me in order to make things clear about what exactly he wanted from that relationship..
Like he wanted me but to a certain limit..
So as to maintain that limit hurting me was essential for him..
His tactics i tell you...My Man is the king of dating techniques..
He knew exactly how to make me realise stuff's and still hold me by his side...
(Standing Ovation from everyone of us to you babe)


But there were times when he din't intentionally wanted to do it, but did..
Even at that time i used to assume he is doing it intentionally..
Bcuz thats what he had imprinted..
That's the image of his in my mind..
That (his name) did this intentionally..
But as i said, you always hurt the person you love..

 So, find the reason as to why he/she is hurting you..


ASK, FIND OR YELL BUT GET THE REASON OUT

Bcuz that's what is going to help you.

 If you don't know the reason for his behavior towards you, how are you gonna find a solution..

Now after so much emotional collide i need you to smile...
Even if you related to that situation..
I want a huge smile over that face 
SMILE


This was about the toxic relations, in the next i'll explain why do u always hurt the person whom you are mutually in love with and have a fairytale with...
Till then,

Siyya...


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