Why You Shouldn't Be Desperate For Love (#1 SOCIAL MEDIA)




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Why You Shouldn't Be Desperate For Love (#1 SOCIAL MEDIA)


Most of your relationships don't last. The guy you like doesn't like you back. All of your past relationships have guys cheating on you, betraying you blah blah blah.....Is this how your situation looks like? Then probably it's because you are desperate.

This might sound rude but it's what it is. You are just too desperate. And it shows in your attitude, the way you treat them and the fact that you crave them.


Today i'm gonna talk about projecting desperation through social media-

So let's dive in......



Desperation is the main reason why a guy/girl just no longer is interested in you. Just keep yourself in their place and imagine someone acting desperate for you. Obviously you get turned off. Right? That's because guys don't like girls who are easy predators. They like girls who they could win and are hard to get. Guys find love as pride, and the girl they are with is their earning. Not trying to be subjective but thats how human brain works. 

Desperation is a sign that you want love to survive. Buts that's just not true.You don't need love to survive it's just a part of it. Desperation is not something which you will realise. Often people don't know that they are projecting themself desperate for someone.No one likes to be desperate.But due to your extreme craving towards love, you end up being desperate.  

Some common ways you could show that you are desperate through social media are-


1- Social Media Bio-

Does your bio scream DESPERATION????

Like "Waiting for someone who actually loves me, not my body" or "I crave what i couldn't win- your love" ? 

Your instagram bio is an introduction to what you are. If the only thing your bio says is that you are lonely and you need love it's a huge turn off. Guys don't like girls who are always crying and waiting for someone to make them happy. Instead be your own happiness. Always keep your bio positive as thats what summarise you to a stranger. Would you like to be a desperate person or a positive welcoming happy one? Your choice. 


2- Online Status-

I have seen alot of people putting sad status, and when i ask them they tell me that it's just because they liked it. Whatever the reason is, you might have liked it or just wanted some attention. But trust me you are being projected as a desperate love craving animal. People assume you as desperate and that is when guys get this feeling of NOOOOO she is toxic. So don't do that.


Stop displaying your self as desperate and tell yourself that 'YOU CAN WAIT' for the person who loves and admires you. Instead of screaming that you are dying for someone to love you and treat you right . Love yourself and if you can't learn from my previous blogs about SELF LOVE here.



Social media is a place to spread positivity and post things which makes you happy. Social media helps people understand how you are and who you are.. So try and keep it as positive as possible. Remember "PEOPLE LIKE ATTRACTING POSITIVE PEOPLE WHO WILL MAKE THEM HAPPY AND NOT CRY BABIES". Stop waiting for love to happen because it will happen when it is meant to. Being desperate will not help. Desperation just shows that you lack self-esteem so don't do that. Believe me even i have done these mistakes in my past but it just doesn't do any good so just avoid.



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